Let’s face it! We are all sometimes guilty of substitution where we swap out hard questions for easy ones because they are just too difficult to answer.
Lately I’ve been experiencing this feeling quite often and week 18’s question just twisted the knife. My concern is, “Am I brave enough to identify the hard questions?” To face them, to accept them and not to replace them with easier ones?
It is not about beeing dishonest with myself but rather picking up my questions in such a way the answer would contain the excuse for not acting like the person I intend to become. And who needs excuses? Definitely not me! They are the only thing standing between me and my goals. So Cristina, choose wisely your questions from now!
And what keep me right now from beeing the person I intend to become? Not having enough courage to act? Not being so much disciplinate? Not taking the sweaty decisions? Not persisting once I took a decision?…
…While I wrote this last paragraph, a voice whispered in my head: “It is Fear darling”
Fear?!? Fear of what? What am I affraid of? What’s the wish behind that fear? If only I would have the courage to put on the table my deepest fears…
…then I would expose my deepest wishes.
“What am I affraid of?” seems a hard question for me. And a harder one would be: “What am I able to change so I can make my way throught fear?”
You are so right on the point! Nobody needs the easy questions–the “hardest” questions are the most honest.
“What are I missing from my life?” “What do I desire the most?” “And why?” Digging deep until it hurts sometimes is the only way to discover what has been stopping you. That’s what happened for me. Thank you so much for sharing. You are inspiring! charles
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Indeed it hurts sometimes and it takes courage to confront it. Thank you for the insights Charles. Happy to discover a new member of this journey. I am sure I have so much to learn from you.
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Wow, Cristina, I LOVE reading ur blog post!!!! “What am I able to change so I can make my way through fear?” I’m in awe!!!!
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Thank you Amanda! I love being in your company, it inspires me. After I write nice posts 🙂
Are you comming this saturday in Munt Punt? We can mastermind in between dances 😉
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Yes, I’m coming to MuntPunt this Saturday! I’m so looking forward to see u, daaaaaance with u and mm with u, Cristina!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeeeehaaaaa!!!!!
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Yeeeyyyyyyy. Lindy hop events with you are even more amazing. That goes on my gratitudes cards for today 🙂
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I am more and more impressed with you, dear Cristina! WHAT an inspiring and wise woman you are! And SO incredible courageous, exemplary open-minded, and your sincerity, vulnerability and honesty are so beautiful and refreshing to witness! By all means, keep going!!!
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Thank you Domi! That encourage me so much !!
My focus now is on applying the knowledge. On building the bridge between that high forme of architecture which is the Word and the Action awaiting to manifest.
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Thank you for your blog. YorkieBear tapped me on the should and wants me to share his thoughts with you …
https://amyandbearsblog.wordpress.com
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You are replacing fear with confidence! (Og) Walking past the moment of hesitation and into a bigger picture of the woman you are becoming. Well done!
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Thank you Miriam. I am finding my way, I can see, it’s comming.
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The question we all are trying to answer. What are we afraid of? Why can’t we reach our goals and dreams? The questions are the reason we are taking this class and are still here in Week 18!
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